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When was the last time you experienced affection that:
- Allowed you to touch and be touched with the purity of innocence?
- Allowed you to feel completely safe and trusting?
- Honored and respected your requests and boundaries?
- Was NOT connected to sex, but touch for touch sake?
- Made you feel your body was a sacred temple?
- Evoked feelings of total acceptance and peace?
- Left you feeling appreciated, nurtured, and fulfilled?
PillowTalk.net's® specialized Conscious Cuddling Groups
allow you to experience nonsexual closeness and affection with respectful partners through touching, eye gazing, verbal and nonverbal communication, in a safe, sacred environment.
 General Information
Groups Offered:
- Women's Groups
- Gender-Balanced Groups
Please contact us for current schedule
Location:
Groups are held in various locations around the San Francisco Bay Area.
Please contact us for current schedule
Registration:
Pre-registration is required. Sorry, no walk-ins. To register, call 415-673-1620, [M-F 11am-6pm PST] or click to contact us by email.
Fee:
$20 per session.
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Group Activities
In order to attend a Conscious Cuddling Group, you must read, accept and follow the
Five Agreements:
- Clothing will be worn at all times.
- Always ask permission to initiate touch.
- No groping, humping, fondling or sexual touching.
- If a group member chooses to take a break or "timeout" from the session, respect their personal space.
- Everything that is said or done in the group stays strictly confidential.
The group opens with a Wisdom Circle, where the members introduce themselves and have the opportunity to share with the others what brings them to the Conscious Cuddling group. The introductions are followed with a modern derivation of an ancient prayer ritual called Puja, where positive affirmations are vocalized and/or visualized.
Next, Jule MacGregor, the facilitator and certified Tantra educator, gives a brief demonstration on Tantric nonsexual touching and connecting. After the demonstration, participants are then given the opportunity to put into practice any/all of the Conscious Cuddling techniques they have learned and discover new ways to explore the healing power of touch - - always, of course, honoring the Five Agreements.
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Frequently Asked Questions
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How important are the Five Agreements and how are they enforced?
Adhering to the Five Agreements is absolutely essential for the Conscious Cuddling Group. They are the behaviors that each participant must abide by to ensure safe, nurturing, and comfortable cuddling experiences for everyone. At each session, Ms MacGregor has assistants present who, among other things, observe the group to ensure the Agreements are followed. Those engaging in inappropriate behavior will be asked to leave the session. We are emphatic about providing you with a relaxing and safe environment!
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Who Attends?
Men and women who. . .
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desire touch for touch’s sake – purely nonsexual affection.
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want to feel calmed, peaceful and relaxed; nurtured, special and adored.
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want to practice honoring the god or goddess within themselves and others through touch and physical
affection that is not a prelude to sex.
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are in a relationship where there is little or no affection from their partner; are recently widowed; in between relationships; near the end of, or in transition to a new relationship.
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want to expand their sensory boundaries by exploring the practices of nonsexual touch in a safe, relaxed environment.
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are open to interaction with people from a variety of cultural, social and economic backgrounds.
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want to truly give and receive from their Heart Chakra.
What can Conscious Cuddling do for me?
Conscious Cuddling can. . .
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provide a stronger sense of fulfillment, nurturing and a feeling of being appreciated for who you are - not for what's expected of you.
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give you the opportunity to reclaim the experience of innocent, childlike affection and aide in dispelling the ‘taboos’ often associated with touching and being touched.
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help you to feel relaxed, nurtured and connected to yourself, others and the universe.
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offer you a safe place in which to practice giving and a receiving without sexual overtures.
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What's the advantage of cuddling with someone I don't know?
Good question! The art of being intimate with others without being sexual helps you to. . .
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gain trust in yourself and in others
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build self-confidence through the ability to comfortably express your wants and needs
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expand your sensual boundaries by stepping outside your ‘comfort zone’.
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heighten your social skills and increase your potential for future meaningful friendships by connecting with someone who doesn't necessarily fit your criteria for a romantic partner.
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I really like the sound of the Conscious Cuddling Group, but am still a bit hesitant. What else do you offer to insure a positive, fulfilling experience?
At any time, for any reason, you are free to take a "timeout" from the session and be given as much time ad personal space as you need. Depending on the size of the group, one or more ‘Cuddle Angels’, assistants who are trained in the techniques of Conscious Cuddling, are available answer questions, give support, what have you. The ‘Cuddle Angels' also observe the group to insure participants are honoring the Five Agreements.
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What should I do if I get sexually aroused during cuddling?
Simply acknowledge that arousal is a natural part of feeling good and does not always need to be acted upon. And remember gentlemen, what goes up, will go down!
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My schedule is so crazy! Do I have to pre-register or can I just show up at the door?
Pre-registration is required. Sorry, but walk-ins are not accepted. Since groups can only accommodate a limited number of participants, it’s necessary to confirm attendance in advance. For our gender-balanced groups, we must ensure that they are, indeed, balanced.
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What do I wear/bring?
Wear loose, comfortable clothing. You'll be asked to take your shoes off at the door. If you need anything special to sit on, bring it. Otherwise, bring your freshly showered, scentless self (please, no perfume or cologne), with teeth brushed and tongue scraped. Most importantly, don't forget to bring your open-mind!
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What is your cancellation policy?
Group Playshops Cancellation Policy: Playshops cancellations received at least 5 days prior to the program are refundable, less a $10 administrative charge per registrant. Cancellations received less than 5 days will be issued a credit towards a future program or session.
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The Conscious Cuddling Group is awesome! I'd love to host a private group at my home. Are you available for this?
Yes! It’s possible "suitcase" our Conscious Cuddling Groups to you. Contact us for more information.
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I'd like to treat my friends to this great experience. Can I purchase a Conscious Cuddling Group gift certificate?
Yes absolutely! Gift certificates are available. Contact us for more information.
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